Winner vs Looser

The winner is always part of the answer;

The loser is always part of the problem.

The winner always has a program

The loser always has an excuse.

The winner says,  “Let me do it for you “

The loser says, “That is not my job.”er

The winner sees an answer to every problem;

The loser sees a problem for every answer.

The winner says, “It may be difficult but it is possible;

The loser says, “It may be possible but it is too difficult.”

When  a winner makes a mistake, he says, ”I was wrong”;

When loser makes a mistake, he says, ”It wasn’t my fault.”

A winner makes commitments;

A loser makes promises.

Winners says,” I must do something”;

Losers says,  “ Something must be done”.

Winners are a part of the team;

Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win- win ;

Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers.

Winners choose what they say;

Losers says what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy:

“  Don’t do to others what you would not want them  to do you “

Losers follow the philosophy  ,”Do it to others before they do it to you.”

Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.

Winners plan and prepare to win. The key word is preparation.